Its one if the few common times after stepping down from a _, knowing that you did a bad _ cause something in yourself wasn't really right. Had a long debrief and spoke to a really wise instructor. One that I'm truly admirable of.
He explained to me that he could observe that I was shaken by certain things that happened in my life recently until one part he was angry and said... "can you fly like a champion athlete?!?"
He went on and said about random things without me explaining anything personal. He told me.. it takes a lot for a woman appreciate and love us for what we do here. It takes a woman with wisdom, with calibre and one that is willing to go through hardship with you. It wasn't that sharing of ice cream that created your bonds or bringing her to movies that created the strong relationship between the both of you, but the hard truth both of your went through that really bond. Cause in future the both of you will certainly be put to the test and many of them failed in the end, its the truth that can't be hidden in this high commitment workplace.
He continued to say .. after you chose that girl.. you will love her forever, protect and standby her regardless of anything. Even when ends meet, divorce isn't an option cause we are not people who 逃避现实. When we crash, we go down with our _, there's no such thing as a parachute, we are not given second chances. Marriage is not a game, its a commitment; more valuable than commitment.
He introduced me to golf and advised me to pick it up cause there are intangible valuable life lessons we can learn from this sport itself. The concentration and discipline routine is what is required of us in what we practise and do. To make sure we do then right thing cause we each only have one shot in what we do. If we miss, move on quickly train up and challenge ourselves with another course.
I'm inspired.
He explained to me that he could observe that I was shaken by certain things that happened in my life recently until one part he was angry and said... "can you fly like a champion athlete?!?"
He went on and said about random things without me explaining anything personal. He told me.. it takes a lot for a woman appreciate and love us for what we do here. It takes a woman with wisdom, with calibre and one that is willing to go through hardship with you. It wasn't that sharing of ice cream that created your bonds or bringing her to movies that created the strong relationship between the both of you, but the hard truth both of your went through that really bond. Cause in future the both of you will certainly be put to the test and many of them failed in the end, its the truth that can't be hidden in this high commitment workplace.
He continued to say .. after you chose that girl.. you will love her forever, protect and standby her regardless of anything. Even when ends meet, divorce isn't an option cause we are not people who 逃避现实. When we crash, we go down with our _, there's no such thing as a parachute, we are not given second chances. Marriage is not a game, its a commitment; more valuable than commitment.
He introduced me to golf and advised me to pick it up cause there are intangible valuable life lessons we can learn from this sport itself. The concentration and discipline routine is what is required of us in what we practise and do. To make sure we do then right thing cause we each only have one shot in what we do. If we miss, move on quickly train up and challenge ourselves with another course.
I'm inspired.
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