If we were to compare, put down everything on the table and see things at an equal level, we'll never be able to rationale an equilibrium why some people get a little more, why other got a little less.
Life's unfair and it was made that way anyway. So to be happy, just close an eye to things we can't control and make silent prayer whenever we can. I believe in hard work, in good deeds and in goodwill of a person. If we pry for good things, eventually good overcomes will come around for us.
But for a young family, with a kid, an unrealistic partner and a pocket full of bills. With his only lifeline left... I could feel his shoes. But none of us could help him except treating him to meals, absorbing his transport cost or occasionally listen to his problems.
I'm asking myself how could I had done something to sulvage his situation or if I were in his exact situation, how could I had done better? I noticed how powerless and limited I am. When we are at our limits, we just got to face the music and live life with our commitments.
But on the other hand. I had a similar age friend, in the same exact situation.. newly wed to a lawyer, currently on a honeymoon trip and expecting a child. Both their prospectful career brought them stable life, good prospect to the family, couple and ultimately ... the child.
Choices are something we make and have to stick to. The missing link is probably to make a promising choice that puts us in good shape... that's the reality that fairytales don't teach us.
I just hope the world could have been more fair. Growing up makes me more and more disappointed at how the world functions...
Life's unfair and it was made that way anyway. So to be happy, just close an eye to things we can't control and make silent prayer whenever we can. I believe in hard work, in good deeds and in goodwill of a person. If we pry for good things, eventually good overcomes will come around for us.
But for a young family, with a kid, an unrealistic partner and a pocket full of bills. With his only lifeline left... I could feel his shoes. But none of us could help him except treating him to meals, absorbing his transport cost or occasionally listen to his problems.
I'm asking myself how could I had done something to sulvage his situation or if I were in his exact situation, how could I had done better? I noticed how powerless and limited I am. When we are at our limits, we just got to face the music and live life with our commitments.
But on the other hand. I had a similar age friend, in the same exact situation.. newly wed to a lawyer, currently on a honeymoon trip and expecting a child. Both their prospectful career brought them stable life, good prospect to the family, couple and ultimately ... the child.
Choices are something we make and have to stick to. The missing link is probably to make a promising choice that puts us in good shape... that's the reality that fairytales don't teach us.
I just hope the world could have been more fair. Growing up makes me more and more disappointed at how the world functions...
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