Fortunate or unfortunate?

How would u measure being fortunate or unfortunate?

Fortunate to have met u, unfortunate that it wasn't the right time?
Fortunate to have this job, unfortunate to have this lifestyle?

Unfortunate to spend one more year, fortunate to understand more things in life?
Unfortunate to miss a train, fortunate to met a new friend who helped?
Unfortunate to be the only occupant in a hostel, fortunate that there was a party?
Unfortunate to have a rough start, fortunate to be stronger? 
Unfortunate that we lead a humble life, Fortunate that we can be closer to family?
Unfortunate that our job is demanding, fortunate that our family can have a more comfortable life?

There's a gazillion ways to get there. How we got there matters a little, how we see ourselves getting there makes the difference.